‘Hashtag Awks’

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We all get those moments of intense anxiety that suddenly appears when you want the earth to open up and swallow you. I thought I would recall some of these memories in my life when I have had to hold my head down in complete awkwardness . I would love to hear your #awks moments too. Please give me a chuckle by leaving them in the comments.

Here are just 4 of mine:

The ‘1st day on the job’ incident

So it’s my first day in my ‘proper’ job, I had been working at Tesco during my A Levels and was now appointed as Checkout Manager in the leafy suburbs of Surrey. I really wanted to make a good impression and opened my crimpoline jacket and polyester slacks (uniform), and ironed my shirt the night before. I arrived nice and early and was told that ‘Cookie’ would introduce me to my team. Cookie was a ‘voluptuous’ creature, the store fund-raiser, union rep and quite simply the ‘self appointed’ matriarch head cashier. Cookie had a sadistic sense of humour and decided to introduce me to Wendy straight away.

“Thats Wendy” , she said , “Wendy always goes on till 24″, don’t upset her on your first day…ignore what the schedule says”.

“Good Morning Wendy, Im Matt, lovely to meet you” I said, “It says here you are down for till 19, but I’ve made an adjustment to put you on your favourite till 24″, I explained.

‘Till 24” she said… “Im not sitting on till 24 all day”, she abruptly informed me.  (Confused now). “I only do break relief, I can’t sit down for too long.”

“Oh why is that then?” I asked inquisitively.. (and I wish I hadn’t)

‘Because I have a really painful vagina!” she exclaimed, and if this wasn’t enough information, she proceeded to tell me that she had suffered a prolapse and was undergoing acupuncture”  …Please stop, I was thinking, but of course I showed empathy and let her continue to  describe how many needles she had stuck in her clacker the night before. I could see Cookie in the background….howling like an injured husky.  I had passed the ‘new boy test’. #awks


The ‘Drury Lane’ incident

The work’s social committee organised  a trip to the theatre….’My Fair Lady’, if you don’t mind. We piled onto the coach and arrived at Drury lane and I purchased the obligatory maltesers and a drink to keep me refreshed, while Martine McCutcheon aka Tiffany Mitchell bumbled across the stage warbling to ‘The rain in Spain stays mainly on the plane.’

Earlier that day the Queen Mother had  passed away and so naturally a two minute silence was called before the show began.  As the announcer spoke fondly of the late monarch, someone in the audience shouted out;

“Fucking old c**t , I bet she didn’t have to pay for her hip replacement!”

I shouldn’t have, but I couldn’t help myself…it’s not that I have no respect, it was the pure comic timing of this oik that set me off. I laughed so hard that I managed to spray my diet coke over about 3 rows of people…direct from my mouth, mixed with sizeable chunks of malteser.  I don’t think Dame Martine was very impressed! #awks


The Fire Alarm incident

Another promotion, and I was now a Senior Manager, posted to Sunbury upon Thames. I had been in the store less than 2 weeks, and it was my go at being Duty Manager on Sunday.  All was going well, until  in the peak of lunchtime, the Fire Alarm went off. It was then that I realised I didn’t know where the fire alarm panel was to locate the source of the alarm. In a panic, I ran through the customer cafe, to check if the Fire had started in the kitchen. As I ran in between tables, some lovely lady decided to push her chair back. Needless to say I somersaulted over ‘said’ chair and face-planted into another disabled lady’s lap. You could hear a pin-drop and then a rupture of applause from the diners in the cafe as well as the entire line of cashiers on the checkouts, as I picked myself up. I was mortified…but I think the disabled lady quite enjoyed it! #awks


The chauffeuring incident.

I accompanied my boss to 2 day meeting with an overnight stay in Manchester,  I did the driving and he fell asleep for the entire trip up the M6. A portly man, with a penchant for buffet, he made haste to the front of the queue on arrival, and made 3 or four trips to refill his plate, before we sat down for the afternoon briefing. Having my boss with me, I was on my best behaviour for the whole two days, being careful not to consume too much alcohol that evening so that I didn’t make a tit of myself …or say something I would later regret. At the end of the conference, I took to the road, me driving again. This time my boss didn’t fall asleep, instead he started going green at the gills. I was commanded to stop at every service station on the way home so the journey became quite lengthy.  Karma had caught up with the fat bastard in the guise of a prawn sandwich, and the greedy git (it’s not him its his glands), had 12 too many of them resulting in food poisoning. However the the distance between Watford Gap  and Northampton services was a longer journey than he anticipated. All of a sudden I heard this loud rumbling noise as he farted. If you think it was bad enough that I had to ignore this and carry in driving, the smell lingered for an unusually long time. When we stopped at Northampton services, he leapt from the car and returned wearing a new pair of trousers.

Yes- my boss had proper shit himself! #awks


What are your ‘hashtag awks’ moments? Let me know and I will feature them in Part 2.

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22 thoughts on “‘Hashtag Awks’

  1. Ritu April 2, 2017 / 9:51 am

    Omg!!! The last one!!!!


  2. shelleywilson72 April 2, 2017 / 9:53 am

    Haha that’s brilliant, Matt. Oh, you’ve got my mind ticking over all the #awks moments of my life now! 😉


    • The Gay Stepdad April 2, 2017 / 10:16 am

      We should pick one from every blogger and read them out at the bash!


  3. Jo (Fallen Angel) April 2, 2017 / 9:59 am

    Huge moment many years ago when I wrote an email to a work colleague slagging off my boss but then accidentally sent it to my boss. MEGA #awks!


    • The Gay Stepdad April 2, 2017 / 10:16 am

      Ha Ha…I did that at the same time I had pocket dialled…and my boss heard me!


  4. thebeasley April 2, 2017 / 10:35 am

    OHMYGOD- these are brilliant and that last was definitely hashtag awks!
    Hmmm- now I’m sure I have loads of awkward episodes, but can only think of one at the moment. Don’t know if you remember the 90s indie band Lush, but I had the pleasure of meeting the guitarist Emma once. She was lovely until I did the absolute classic of asking her when her baby was due. She wasn’t pregnant #awks


  5. Phil Taylor April 2, 2017 / 11:27 am

    Hilarious! I can’t even come up with anything close to that in my career, save one minor incident when a female co-worker opened the door too the loo when I was sitting down. She was more embarrassed than I was.


  6. Em Linthorpe April 2, 2017 / 11:56 am

    Oh my!! I can never remember any awkward moments, I think I block them out! 😂 I would totally have done the same thing as you at the theatre though!


  7. Gary April 2, 2017 / 2:53 pm

    Quality, absolute quality; I think we should all have a bash at this one.lol


  8. josypheen April 2, 2017 / 7:15 pm

    These made me giggle out loud (gol!) I was giggling so much that my husband made me read them out to him! 🙂

    The last one must have been truly awful! I have a couple of awks moments but I’m not sure I should share them! Please delete my post if it is too dodgy!

    I used to live in Japan, in the city of Nara. I had quite a few friends that lived out in the countryside, so they would all stay at my flat when we had work events in the city. The fist time several people came to stay we all went drinking at a “beer garden.” Beer gardens in Japan are on top of sky-scrapers, and they often involve nomihodai (all you can drink.) So I was attempting to get my moneys worth of drinks, and I made the mistake of matching drinks with a Kiwi girl who was far better at holding her alcohol than me.
    Needless to say, I only made it until about 9pm(!) My new friends had to take me home, and then they went out again with my keys, as the night was still young. I am not really sure what drunken Josy was thinking, but I must have just taken my clothes off and passed out.
    The next morning I woke up asleep on the floor, completely naked but with a thin sheet over me. My friends were sleeping on futons around me. To this day I have no idea if my friends came home to a sleeping naked me…or if I did manage to cover myself with the sheet. Eep! So awks.
    I had to leave early (before everyone else woke up) to get to work as I was running orientations for all my colleagues. The first time I saw all my friends (*not* naked) was while I was interpreting for my boss in front of everyone. I was so, so hungover I felt sick. Somehow no-one seemed to notice and I maintained my sweet innocent image with all the colleagues that had not been staying at my flat.


  9. The Indecisive Eejit April 2, 2017 / 11:40 pm

    lol Brilliant! I think you already read about my awkward moment earlier. But that aside, lesson learned, I certainly wouldn’t be telling you if I’d shit mesen lol


  10. Peg Stueber-Temp and Tea April 3, 2017 / 3:18 pm

    My first day on the job – working as a waitress at a Big Boy.

    I had 2 cops take a booth in my station – I got them the usual table stuff (silverware & napkins), took their drink order, let them peruse the menu.

    I came back with 2 big glasses of iced tea, got the first one on the table just fine. The second…not so much. Tipped it over, and sent a deluge of cold tea gushing across the table, directly on route to one of the cops lap.

    It’s a good thing the boys in blue have quick reflexes. It’s the only thing that saved them him finishing out his shift in wet pants. Yup…. #awks


  11. Becca Barracuda April 3, 2017 / 8:13 pm

    These are gold– especially that last one! I audibly gasped when I read the end!! I know I have #awks moments (moments upon moments, really) but for some reason, I am currently drawing a blank. Drats.


  12. noellekelly April 8, 2017 / 10:49 am

    The first and last one are priceless! Oh, you always make me laugh!


  13. Elizabeth April 11, 2017 / 6:19 pm

    You know my biggest #awks moment since I don’t think I could top asking the doctor for Viagra. Why can’t I ever have some young guy fall into my lap? I’m disabled. I think I should get the odd clutz falling on me every now and again!


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